Relationships

Dear readers of Heartless Words,

I would like to take a few minutes and talk about relationships, wether it was between a guy and a girl, or two friends. Relationship is usually defined as the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. Sometimes being connected is a bond, a certain similarity, or even a common interest, but to be in love with someone is different. Loving someone else has its own feelings, emotions, thinking, living, and loving.

To be in a relationship should have its pros and cons. It will have its good times and its bad times, but those are the things that count, because it shows how much you love the other significant. Any relationship is like an electrical circuit. For example, let's say that this electrical circuit has two power sources and one outcome. You won't have an outcome if neither the power sources gave any energy, and even if one of them gave all the energy it has it'll also go to waste. To have a good outcome you need both of the power sources to give the energy it has. A relationship is just like that, you can't have a functioning relationship if only one power source is working, even if it's giving everything it has. 

However,  even though people are so different they're so alike. Everyone has their giving stage and their receiving stage, i.e let's say that one of the two couple is giving and the other is receiving, maybe, both of the couple are happy at that point, but let's say that that persons time of giving ran out and it's time for him/her to receive, but the other significant isn't giving. The couple won't be happy. For a relationship to stay healthy both significants should give and receive, even though sometimes people don't like to give, but in a relationship it's very important to have both giving and receiving.

In an other example, there is a boy and a girl. The guy is ready to text the girl all day long, but when he texts her and she's busy but doesn't let him know that she's busy, obviously, the guy is going to start worrying, and ,more less, keeping in mind that persons surrounding, if  he was surrounded by his friends, and his friends knew that she hasn't replied in a while they'll either make it worse or better. It also can be the other way around. So people should be careful if one is interested in the other person and doesn't want to lose them or start a fight.

To sum up, it is very important for a relationship to face challenges, because it makes it stronger, and at the end of the day both couples know that they can't live without the other. Also, one should keep in mind that the other significant is going to give until a certain point, and from then it's on that person to start giving.

I'll leave you with this, You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity - Epicurus. Lastly, Don't let the world change your smile, but let your smile change the world.